This is an extraordinary video of people’s eyes. Sometimes we have contact with people for years and never actually...
Archive for category: Relationships
Gratitude, Criticism and Attention — “You Know What Your Problem Is?”
Ten years ago I presented at a Mindfulness and Psychology conference in La Jolla on the relationship between Gratitude,...
A Love Competition – Video
Imagine there was a love competition. People competed to see who was most able to love another person. How...
The Four Challenges of Long Term Love
There are few things more challenging than trying to sustain a long-term intimate relationship. Generally, we think of the...
A small tweak can create a big shift
A small tweak can create a big shift. It’s hard to remember this when dealing with a problem that...
Attention: Our Paths Are Lined with Blessings
When relationships are new, everything seems possible. The terrain that you cover together seems lush, inviting and easy to...
The Spirit of Thank You/Sorry
I’ve just finished conducting a nine day residential training in Japanese Psychology at the ToDo Institute in Vermont. During...
Experimenting with life
We are in the middle of our Natural Approach to Mental Wellness program, where we experiment with different...