We spent some delightful days camping in the Adirondack Mountains in upstate New York. It’s hard to leave Vermont...
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The other day we had a lovely summer gathering at one of my favorite places in Vermont: Kingsland Bay...
Haiku is a lovely form of poetry from Japan. It has only three lines and seventeen syllables. We use...
Which is the Best Choice?
Which is the Best Choice? The situation described below is a bit like a Zen Koan – it challenges...
Procrastinating to Get Things Done
Do you consider yourself a procrastinator? Undoubtedly, many of us have procrastinated on some project or task at some...
That’s What I Thought
A friend of mine recently visited her mother in a nursing home. But her mother didn’t recognize her. Her...
What Prevents You from Appreciating Your Partner (and a lot of other people)? Hint: It has to do with gorillas
Are you familiar with the “invisible gorilla” experiment? A group of people were asked to pass basketballs back and...
Rolling Your Eyes in a Relationship — Felony or Misdemeanor (Audio)
(Audio Podcast – 5 min.) Most of us realize that there’s no right and wrong when it comes to...